Is worrying healthy ? Could it even be a positive thing to worry ? We all worry about something to some extent at some point in our life. Sometimes its our loved ones health or bills, or maybe what other people think of us or whether or not it going to rain. Most of the time, worrying about things do very little good other than waste your time and cause you grief. Can worrying about something actually be positive ? Is it possible that if I “worry” about hitting my goal and meeting my deadline that it will inspire me and drive me to work harder so that I actually do reach my goal ? Some would say that they weren’t really worried at all and that they knew they would reach their goal all along.
When you first set out to reach a dream or a goal, you set the bar high and you know that there are certain things that need to be completed. Sometimes, you don’t know every single step that it will take but you know that it will take determination, passion, attitude, confidence and desire. When you want to excel , you must show that you have the right type of attitude to excell. You have to do the research and take the necessary steps. You have to ask for the help and guidance. You have to show the initiative. It will NOT just fall into your lap. Should this worry you a little at first? Sure, but worry will soon turn into confidence. Confidence will soon lead you to success. The initial worry has become a positive because it caused you to excell.
On occasion, worry can be a problem. The problem with worry, is that we worry about everything in this world . We worry about politics,war,religion,sports,sex,jobs,entertainment,weather,games,cellphones,money,hate groups,movies,healthcare, and the list goes on. It seems ironic that what we dont worry about -is each other. Yes, WE do individually maybe. We care about our family but does it seem like the world as a whole just really doesnt give a shit about anyone including you or me ? It seems like no one is worrying about us . The world is going on and yes we are all part of it but everyone seems to have their own agenda. We have to remember that we are all here together. And we still have a code of values and morals to live by-don’t we ?. It seems like many people in our world have forgotten those codes. Sure , Everyones values and morals may differ slightly, but one code that should not differ at all is respect. We have lost that value in this world. And that-worries me.