Is talking to other people really that easy ?

OK so , when you talk to someone, do you find it difficult? Do you find it easy ? What I mean is- can you say a simple hello ? Can you look someone in the eye when speaking to them ? Are you distracted easily while someone is speaking to you ?  Can you talk to a certain someone if you have something on your mind or if something is bothering you ?  Or do you keep everything bottled up inside and keep everything inside without ever saying anything to anyone.

So why do some people find it difficult to talk to others while some find it easier ? The answer may surprise you. You see, It may not be what you’re saying to the person you’re taking to. Infact- it has more to do with what the other person is saying- and what is that ?  NOTHING- Thats right- sometimes is nothing.  Thats because that person is listening and very rarely commenting. And when they are commenting, its only to comfirm what you are saying.  So when you do speak to a person and you are lucky enough to find that person that listens- you are willing to talk more- and open up more . Once you are done talking, the person listening may offer advice or opinions, or they may just acknowledge your thoughts, but they listened.  It’s not a perfect science and yea the person listening may not offer the best advice , but the idea is for there to be a form of communication between two people .

When you don’t have anyone to talk to -stress bulds up. Your life can become hectic and seem very difficult. If you dont have that certain someone to talk to on a regular basis , try other methods of communication.

Throughout my many years of banking, I learned many forms of communication. I always treated every single person I met with the utmost respect and as if they were my one of my  friends. I wasnt lying, I really did enjoy the interaction. I smiled and treated them exactly the way I wanted them to treat me. Well guess what ? , Everytime you talk to people after youve gotten to know them, they tell you a little about themself, dont they ?  And you tell them about yourself too. And suddenly youve made friends and you find yourself opening up to people when you never really thought you would ! hmmmm . funny how that works. It may not be deep dark secrets. But it may be a method to help some people that dont have that certain someone to turn too. www.lorenzovictory.com

So no matter who you are-Talking really is that easy !