Simple Steps to Confidence

Throughout our whole life, all we look for  as a person , is to be loved and cared for. All we look for is to be told that we matter to that person. We are given values and morals and taught how to respect others. We are taught to believe in ourselves and to be confident in our own abilities to do whatever it is that we seek out to do. And we are taught that no matter what happens in life-no matter what the circumstance is, that our loved ones will support and stand behind us no matter what. We are taught that we must be ethical and work and do our best with whatever it is we do and that regardless of the end result, we are loved. I mean—we are ALL taught this, right ? We do all experience this dont we ? Do some of you get told this once in a while ? Do some get this told this all the time ? Do some of you wonder what the hell I’m talking about ? Why is that ? Why are  some parents/guardians better at conveying this message so that the children grow up-more confident-loved, full of self esteem, integrity. Every child must learn how to be confident and how to cooperate with others and how to have self esteem and how to be happy with themselves in general. The teenage years add a whole new realm of problems to their life. We all face obstacles in our life that range from daily life issues to medical issues. We must have strong support from those who care for us.  We must learn that obstacles exist in life and we have to face some of those obstacles if we are to overcome them. If we look at the obstacle as a problem-then the obstacle becomes a problem. We must still live our life . And move on. Be confident and know that we will be successful at anything we desire. Having a positive attitude is always important. Focus on living life daily and what your goals are and not what your problems. Don’t ignore change in your life. Accept that change happens but understand that how you react to that change- is what matters. http://www.lorenzovictory.com/